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When it comes to body language, nobody does it better than Italians! Hand gestures, facial expressions, and posture play an essential role in Italy. They are the essence of conversation as much as punctuation is to writing.
Hand gestures constitute a vital part of Italian communication â in fact, one could say that most conversations are incomplete without them! Did you know that there are at least 250 Italian hand gestures that locals use on a daily basis?
What you probably donât know is that the need to find a common non-verbal code to communicate traces back to the fall of the Western Roman Empire, when the arrival of new immigrants and colonizers from other regions of the world forced people to find new ways of communicating to overcome language barriers.
Over time, several ethnic groups and populations imposed their languages, cultures and mannerisms in the current territory that is Italy: the Carolingians, the Visigoths, the Normans, the Saracens, the Germanic tribes (Vandals, Ostrogoths and Lombards), the Spaniards, the French and the Austrians. Until 1861, that is, when Italy was officially âreunitedâ to become the state we know nowadays.
In the beginning, however, most people still used the dialect of their own region to communicate, which meant Italian was the official language on paper but not in real life. It took some time, and mostly thanks to school and television (yes, television!), to make Italian the primary language used in daily communication. Nowadays, despite the majority of the Italian population speaking standardised Italian, hand gestures have stuck out as a method of expression to accompany verbal communication in Italy.
That is why gestures still play such an important role to Italians! It helps them better understand each other, it adds emphasis to their speech, it gives them that theatrical and dramatic tone when they speak that everybody around the world loves so much. Itâs simply part of the culture and it is acquired unconsciously by children imitating their parents and peersâ behaviours, meaning they develop gesticulating as an involuntary and natural habit.
Gestures give us an insight into Italian culture and knowing how to âhandleâ them will surely make your life in Italy much easier, whether you just moved there to work or study or travel and visit friends or family.
Here are 17 of the most common Italian hand gestures Italians use every day including; what they mean, when to use them, and most importantly, how to do them!
Non-offensive gestures
Hand Gesture No. 1
This is perhaps the most classical and well-known among Italian gestures. Although it is widely used among Italians and fits in a variety of situations, its use around the world is sometimes mistaken. If youâre wondering, what does this actually mean? Well, here is everything you need to know about this famous Italian gesture!
What itâs called | The âpinecone handâ or the âfinger purseâ |
What it means | Ma che fai? (But what are you doing?!); Ma che vuoi? (But what do you want?)!; Ma dove vai? (But where are you going?!); Ma perché? (But why?!); and basically, any other question. |
When to use it | You use it when:
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How to do it | Gather your fingertips to one imaginary point keeping your fingers stretched out and hold your hand upwards. |
Cultural notes | Itâs very sarcastic and itâs often accompanied by a confused or disagreeing look. |
Attenzione! (Careful!)This gesture is mostly funny and ironic but it can also be quite aggressive if your facial expression is livid and accompanied by more colourful expressions stating that someone is saying/doing something stupid and nonsense, as in âChe ca**o stai dicendo/facendo?â (What the f**k are you talking about/doing?).
Hand Gesture No. 2
If youâre really craving something to eat, hereâs something to suit you!
What itâs called | The âspaghettiâ gesture |
What it means | Che ne dite di una spaghettata? (How about a round of spaghetti?) |
When to use it | You use it when youâre hungry and craving spaghetti so you suggest to your group of friends to make a âspaghettataâ (a round of spaghetti). |
How to do it | Using your index and middle finger, imitate a fork picking up spaghetti while pointing your elbow sidewards. |
Cultural notes | No matter what time it is â spaghetti is always a great idea! (Ok, maybe not for breakfastâŠ) |
Hand Gesture No. 3
The next hand gesture is also food-related, no surprises there!
What itâs called | The âyumâ gesture |
What it means | Mmm⊠che buono! (Mmm⊠Yummy!) |
When to use it | You use this Italian hand sign to say that a meal is molto buono (delicious), for example, to compliment your friendâs mumâs cooking. |
How to do it | Poke your cheek with one index finger and twist the finger back and forth. |
Cultural notes | This gesture is very emphatic and is usually used with kids. |
Hand Gesture No. 4 â Part I
This Italian gesture can be quite confusing because it can have two meanings depending on⊠the facial expression! If you do it with a serious expression, then it means, âwatch outâ and can be quite intimidating:
What itâs called | The âocchioâ gesture (the âeyeâ gesture) |
What it means | Stai attento⊠(Careful/ Watch outâŠ) |
When to use it | You use it when you want to warn someone. |
How to do it | Using your index finger, gently tug at your bottom eyelid. |
Cultural notes | Use it carefully, particularly in Sicily, because it recalls the Mafia communication code. |
The meaning of this gesture changes completely if, when you perform it, you have a cheeky smile!
Hand Gesture No. 4 â Part II
What itâs called | The âocchioâ gesture (the âeyeâ gesture) |
What it means | Furbo/ Furbetto! (Sly/ Clever guy!) |
When to use it | You use it to talk about someone sly, clever or someone who did something tricky and sneaky. |
How to do it | Using your index finger, gently tug at your bottom eyelid and smile. |
Cultural notes | It doesnât mean âintelligentâ in the sense of âsmartâ or ârighteousâ, itâs more about being in the right place at the right time, chasing the opportunity and taking advantage of someone/something. |
Hand Gesture No. 5
The next gesture is used when a drastic (and unexpected) change occurs.
What itâs called | The âfrom riches to ragsâ gesture |
What it means | Da cosĂŹ a cosĂŹ! (Literally: âFrom this to that!â) |
When to use it | You use this hand gesture in Italy to express that something or someone has drastically changed, such as a situation or a personâs behaviour. |
How to do it | Place one hand with your palm facing downwards, and then flip it over with the palm facing upwards while speaking. |
Cultural notes | This gesture carries a note of sadness or disappointment for the change that happened. |
Hand Gesture No. 6
When youâve had enough of something or someone, this gesture will come in handy!
What itâs called | The âbastaâ gesture (the âenoughâ gesture) |
What it means | (Ora) basta! (Enough!) |
When to use it | Use this Italian gesture to say that youâve reached the limit, you canât do it anymore, youâve had enough. Basta! |
How to do it | Cross hands over one another and draw an imaginary horizontal line level with your chest. |
Cultural notes | This gesture can be in between the offensive and non-offensive gestures, depending on your audience, the tone you use and your facial expression. |
Hand Gesture No. 7
The next hand gesture has to do with⊠superstition!
What itâs called | The âhornsâ gesture |
What it means | Facciamo le corna / TiĂš (Literally: âLetâs do the hornsâ) |
When to use it | This Italian gesture is used to protect yourself from the Evil Eye, or against anyone whoâs bad-mouthing you. |
How to do it | Outstretch your pinkie and index fingers with your hand facing downwards to look like horns. |
Cultural notes | Make sure your fingers point downwards because pointing them upwards means that someone is cheating on their partner! Itâs not unusual in Italy to find little horns that look like a chilli pepper as a lucky charm. In Italian, itâs called âcornicelloâ (meaning little horn, or hornlet), you can also say âcornetto,â or âcorno.â People, especially in Naples and Southern Italy, like to carry them, hang them in their car or around the home for protection because of their supposed magic properties. The origin of this object dates back to Neolithic times when the horn was believed to be an auspicious sign of fertility (and therefore power) because of its phallic shape. People began to make these small amulets themselves. They could be made of wood, clay or coral and had to be strictly handmade to acquire the benefits from the maker. Attenzione! According to custom, you cannot buy a âcornicelloâ for yourself, it must be gifted to you, otherwise, it would lose its protective function. Learn more about this Italian superstition in my guide. |
Hand Gesture No. 8
If you need to find a way out of an uncomfortable situation, this gesture is perfect for the occasion!
What itâs called | The âandiamoâ gesture (the âletâs goâ gesture) |
What it means | Andiamo! (Letâs go!) |
When to use it | You use this gesture in Italy to say that itâs time to go. |
How to do it | Flatten your fingers except for your thumb and then move your hand several times with an up-and-down or diagonal movement. |
Cultural notes | Depending on the situation, it can be used:
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Attenzione! If youâre addressing someone while making this gesture and using your other hand to smack the back of the hand that moves, youâre basically telling them in a rude way to disappear from the picture, as in vattene! (go away!).
Hand Gesture No. 9
The next Italian hand gesture is quite ironic and is often used to mock someone for not being brave.
What itâs called | The âpauraâ gesture (the âfearâ gesture) |
What it means | Hai paura? (Are you scared?) |
When to use it | You use this gesture with mockery to ask someone if theyâre scared. |
How to do it | Turn your palms upwards, open and close all five fingers at the same time as a repeated action; as if youâre pinching something. |
Cultural notes | This gesture often implies that your interlocutor is a coward. |
Hand Gesture No. 10
This hand sign is quite cliché when talking about Italian gestures:
What itâs called | The âperfettoâ gesture (the âperfectâ gesture) |
What it means | Perfetto! (Perfect!) |
When to use it | You use it when you think somethingâs perfect. |
How to do it | Gather your fingertips like in the âpinecone handâ gesture (or use just the thumb and the index finger together) and softly touch your lips with your fingertips while sending out an imaginary kiss. |
Cultural notes | This traditional hand gesture can be replaced by the more international gesture of âokayâ. |
Hand Gesture No. 11
Caught someone doing something suspicious? The next gesture will describe it perfectly!
What itâs called | The âaumm, aummâ gesture |
What it means | âaumm, aummâ |
When to use it | You use this hand gesture when a person is doing something theyâre not supposed to be doing, to describe a situation that seems a bit shady or even illegal. |
How to do it | With your fingers pointing downwards, move four fingers (not the thumb) together harmoniously in a continuous circle. |
Cultural notes | This gesture is accompanied by raising eyebrows and the sound âaumm, aummâ in perfect synchrony. |
Rude and Offensive Gestures
Hand Gesture No. 12
To express your indignation, hereâs an Italian hand gesture for you to learn.
Name | The âma guarda teâ gesture (the âlook at thatâ gesture) |
What it means | Ma guarda te! (Look at that!) (Literally: But look at you!) |
When to use it | You use this Italian hand gesture when youâre upset/annoyed by someoneâs behaviour and want to criticize them, as in âThat idiot!â / âWhat the heck is he/she doing?â |
How to do it | Raise one arm with your hand open and palm facing sideways or upwards. Bend your elbow pointing to someone whoâs bothered you. |
Cultural notes | This simple gesture often goes with a long exasperation sigh and an indignant look on your face. |
Hand Gesture No. 13
Fed up with someoneâs behaviour? Canât stand them? Thereâs a very expressive gesture to express that in Italian!
What itâs called | The âmi stai quaâ gesture (the âI canât stand youâ gesture) |
What it means | Mi stai qui/qua. (I canât stand you.) (Literally: âYouâre here on meâ) |
When to use it | This gesture is offensive and a very direct way to tell someone theyâre unbearable and you canât stand them, either for their behaviour or personality. |
How to do it | Hold your forearm horizontally against the stomach, with your thumbs and first three fingers touching each other and pointing downwards. The pinky finger stays outstretched. |
Cultural notes | Donât confuse this gesture with a food-related one! This time touching your stomach carries a negative meaning, almost as if youâre saying âI canât digest youâ. |
Hand Gesture No. 14
The next hand gesture is also rude and cheeky:
What itâs called | The âchin flickâ gesture |
What it means | Chissenefrega! (Who cares!) |
When to use it | This hand gesture is used to convey one simple and direct meaning: âI donât careâ, âI donât give a ****â. |
How to do it | Do this gesture by flicking your fingers out from under your chin and tipping your head slightly while making a ântzeâ noise with the mouth. |
Cultural notes | To be more expressive, make a careless, almost contemptuous look while performing this gesture. |
Hand Gesture No. 15
This gesture is among the most offensive of all:
What itâs called | The âumbrellaâ gesture |
What it means | Ma vaffanc*lo! (F*** off!) |
When to use it | This is a common substitute for the F-bomb to sell someone to âget lostâ or âgo to hellâ, in the most offensive way possible. |
How to do it | Place one hand in the middle of the opposite arm and bend that arm vertically. |
Cultural notes | Its name comes from the fact that the arm resembles the handle of an umbrella while doing this gesture. Avoid using it if you donât want to meddle in unpleasant situations! |
Hand Gesture No. 16
Is somebody messing with you? This gesture will probably scare them away!
What itâs called | The âhand bitingâ gesture |
What it means | Si tâanacagliu! [in Sicilian dialect] Se ti prendo! (If I catch you!) |
When to use it | You can use it:
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How to do it | Bite the side of your hand with the palm open facing downwards. |
Cultural notes | It can be more or less rude depending on the seriousness of the context. |
Hand Gesture No. 17
The next gesture is not used to indicate the size of a pizza â in fact, itâs a threatening and offensive gesture used to say âI can really hurt you!!â
What itâs called | The âbuttocksâ gesture |
What it means | Ti faccio un c*lo cosĂŹ (Iâll make your ass this big) |
When to use it | You use this Italian hand gesture as a threat to let someone know theyâve crossed the line and you are seriously thinking about hurting them, as in âIâll kick you so hard your bum cheeks will end up this far apart.â |
How to do it | Extend just your thumb and index finger of both hands and open them to the size of a⊠pizza (depending on how âbigâ the threat is)! |
Cultural notes | This gesture can be used in a different context with a completely different meaning. If you refer to yourself and accompany the gesture with the phrase âMi sono fatto/a un c*lo cosĂŹâ or âMi sono spaccato/a il culoâ (âI worked my ass offâ), you want to stress how much effort you put into achieving something. |
Conclusion
As we said at the beginning, there are hundreds of Italian gestures used in Italy on a daily basis, but if you manage to learn the (good) ones shown in this article, youâll be well on your way. :)
The good thing about gestures is that you donât really need to be fluent in Italian to use them. Theyâre a parallel (and often alternative) way to say things in a colloquial manner. Hand gestures and facial expressions will improve your ability to communicate effectively with native Italian speakers. After all, a journey into the language is not complete without learning about the culture as well! So, keep it up and before you know it, youâll find yourself moving your hands like never before and speaking like an Italian!
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